DON’T ASK…DO TELL DEPT.: Gay rights advocate and about-to-be lesbian bride CYNTHIA NIXON’s putting the squeeze on “Sex and the City” buddy SARAH JESSICA PARKER, lobbying her to help push for gay marriage rights – but Sarah’s pushing right back!
Cynthia, who’s hoping to wed galpal of five years CHRISTINE MARINONI, “believes Sarah’s high profile will really help the cause,” a pal says – “but she also knows the star has her hands full with her new twins, just born by a surrogate mother. Still, she’s making it personal and keeping the pressure on.”
Busy mom Sarah, who wants to help, compromised – promising Cynthia she’ll show up if there’s a major fundraiser or other event convenient to her New York stomping grounds
