Distraught Meg Ryan's facing an agonizing dilemma -- she desperately wants to live in Australia with lover Russell Crowe, but knows she'd have to leave 8-year-old son Jack behind because dad Dennis Quaid wouldn't let him leave this country. The "Gladiator" star is pushing Meg to move Down Under -- saying he'd rather fall on his sword than move to Hollywood. He told Meg she can pick any pad her heart desires -- and that he'd love the role of stepdad. But, so far, she's torn between love and motherhood! Stay tuned.