FULL DISCLOSURE: I’m the only news outlet that’s ignored the JUSTIN THEROUX-JENNIFER ANISTON will-they-won’t-they marriage hoo-ha because all the back-and-forth bored me – until NOW:

My Friend-ly Spies just scooped that Jen’s ordered her foot-dragging, commitment-phobic beau – who ducked nuptial commitment to ex live-in HEIDI BIVENS for a whopping 14 years – into therapy!

“Jennifer finally saw the writing on the wall as Justin – who does love her, no question – got freaked and made every excuse to delay their ‘summer’ wedding,” said a source.

“First he blamed their work schedules, and supposed construction delays on their multimillion-dollar Bel- Air mansion. Then he told Jen he wanted to wait until he had time to take her on a ‘real’ honeymoon, even though she’s told him she’s happy to put a honeymoon on hold. Finally, Jen realized Justin was pulling away from her. She begged him to tell her what was bothering him – and he dropped the bomb, admitting that the idea of marriage just freaks him out. He loves her, but doesn’t understand why they just can’t continue living together the way they are now. Jennifer was devastated!”

After deciding she’s still genuinely crazy about the guy, Jen laid down an ultimatum: Justin must undergo intensive therapy to work through his commitment issues, or – buh-bye!

Said a source: “At first, Justin was reluctant, but finally agreed. He’s already closeted with a therapist – and Jen’s actually participating in the sessions.” Stay tuned.